Pakistan and belongs from a middle class family
Pakistan and belongs from a middle class family, I bet you've heard some sentences like,
"Beta...! kitna kama letay ho?"
"Beta...! itni moti hogayi ho, kam khaya kro"
"Beta...! Itni kamzor hogayi ho, khaati peeti nahi ho kiya?"
"Beta...! Kiya percentage bani?"
"Beta...! Admission hogaya?"
"Beta...! Shadi kab karo gi?"
"Beta...! Job mil gayi?"
"Beta.........." And so on.
I guess you've recognized, about whom I'm talking today. Yes! Those "Aunties" and "Uncles" who've ruined our lives completely. Using the word "Aunty" doesn't mean that I'm only talking about just aged relatives (Woh tou hain hi) I'm actually talking about the "Natural Aunties" and "Uncles" (Age ki bhi koi requirement nahi hai bhai!) Who love to interfere in others matters. Natural aunties can be just 12, 13 years old and asking the questions like, "Result kiya bana apka? Meri dost ki behen ki toh 98% aayi hai. Acha ek kam kren na, roll number den apna, mai check kr lungi" (experienced hun yar :)) like bro, look at yourself, go and buy complan for your growth instead of asking such questions!
If anyone from such relatives of mine is reading this (I know you're reading Jaani, stalk karne ka keera jo hai ;)) listen, I'm talking to YOU, yes you! Mind your own damn business because we don't need your advices. You can call it rudeness and what so ever but who cares? If it's rudeness then I'm proud to be rude. (Mere readers soch rahay hongay, bandi pagal hogayi hai)
To be very honest, these Aunties and Uncles need to be stopped yar. Like seriously? You don't even know what we're facing and you just come and start giving us bundles of useless advices? Not even advices but de-motivation. Uncles be having 200 kg weight and telling boys to do "Exercise". Aunties be having matric failed daughters and asking us to score more than 90% in intermediate. No, I'm not kidding. Honestly speaking, I've seen such aunties and uncles who don't even know wtf we're doing and start giving us useless advices and comparison. Even one of them asked my mother to search for a rishta for me because I've turned 15 (3 years ago) with a miskeen shakal, "Bas behen, rishtay kahan miltay hain?" Who the hell asked her for an advice?
I read somewhere that maybe we're the last generation who's respecting relatives. Let me explain this. Actually we're the last generation who's tolerating "TOXIC PEOPLE". We still respect those who don't compare us with "Shabana ki beti", motivate us, give us advices which really worth it and most importantly RESPECT US. Respect is equally important for everyone whether it's a child or an adult. Don't know when this society will understand these things but one thing I should say,
Stop teaching your children "Baray jo boltay hain, bhalay k liye hi boltay hain" toxicity is INTOLERABLE and UNACCEPTED in every manner...!

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